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1. What to say to someone who is grieving
2. What NOT to say to someone who is grieving
3. What to say to someone right after a death in the hospital

“At least you have other children” or “you can always have more children”

“Would you like to spend some time alone with your loved one?”

“Should I be aware of any specific needs or rituals?”

“I wish I had the right words, just know I care.”

"Do you have any questions I could answer for you?"

“Would you like to have our chaplain come see you?”

“It was God’s will”, “God has a plan”, or “Everything happens for a reason”

“My favorite memory of your loved one is…”

“I can’t know all you are going through, but I am with you and want to be a support in whatever way is needed.”

“Don’t cry” or “You need to be strong now”

“It could be worse. I know this person who . . ."

“He/she is in a better place now”

“I don’t know how you feel, but I am here to help in any way I can.”

“I know how you feel”

“I can just sit here with you if like.”

“Is there anyone I could contact for you?”

“There are no words…but know I am here for you. My heart is with you.”

“I will just sit here with you if that’s alright.”