New Activity
Play Matching Game
1. Responding to the Arousal/Relaxation Cycle
2. Initiating Positive Interactions
3. Claiming Behaviors

Watch the child's favorite tv show with them

Help the child to learn new coping strategies to support coregulation

If the child desires, adding a middle name to incorporate a name of family significance

Teaching the child to cook or bake

Using the child's tantrums to encourage attachment

Watch the child play a video game, ask them about the characters and the objectives

Hanging pictures of the child on the wall; include them in family photos

Going shopping together for clothes/toys

Soothing the child upon night wakings

Incorporating child's cultural practices and food into environment

Be the child's advocate

Going on special outings: the park, movie theater, plays

Supporting the child's outside activities by being a group leader or attending games

Involving the child in family reunions and similar activities

Helping the child express and cope with feelings of anger or frustration

Playing games and express delight

Responding to the child when they are physically ill or hurt

Making statements like "In our family, we..." in a supportive and encouraging way

Helping the child cop with ambivalent feelings about bio family