Strong, unpredictable reactions
Convincing you to do things you don’t feel comfortable doing
Keeping you away from friends, family & others.
VOLATILITY
Overwhelming behaviour Extreme feelings expressed.
Controlling who you spend time with & what you do
BELITTLING
GUILTING
POSSESSIVENESS
SABOTAGE
Blaming others for their own actions. (alcohold/drug use/ past experiences: cheating)
ISOLATION
Threatening to hurt themselves/others if you don't do as they say or stay with them.
MANIPULATION
INTENSITY
BETRAYAL
Ruining your reputation, achievements or success.
Making fun of you, name-calling or criticizing you.
DEFLECTING RESPONSIBILITY
Disloyal, dishonest behaviour. (Sharing your private information, lying to you, cheating on you)