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When someone is jealous to a point where they try to control who you spend time with and what you do. While jealousy is a normal human emotion, it becomes unhealthy when it causes someone to control or lash out at you.
2
You have space to be yourself outside of the relationship. The other person should be supportive of your hobbies and your relationships with other friends, family and coworkers.
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When someone tries to control your decisions, actions or emotions.
4
The relationship moves at a _________ pace that feels enjoyable for each person. It’s normal to want to spend a lot of time with someone when you first meet them, but it’s important that you’re both on the same page with how the relationship is moving.
5
________ responsibility is when someone repeatedly makes excuses for their unhealthy behavior.
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When someone has a really strong, unpredictable reaction that makes you feel scared, confused or intimidated.
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When someone does and says things to make you feel bad about yourself. This includes name-calling, making rude remarks about people you’re close with, or criticizing you.
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When someone keeps you away from friends, family, or other people. This behavior often starts slowly with someone asking you to spend more 1:1 time with them but can later escalate to demands that you don’t see certain people.
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When someone is disloyal or acts in an intentionally dishonest way.
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When someone purposely ruins your reputation, achievements, or success.
11
You are caring and empathetic to one another, and provide comfort and support.
12
The relationship feels balanced and everyone puts the same effort into the success of the relationship.
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When someone makes you feel responsible for their actions or makes you feel like it’s your job to keep them happy. They may blame you for things that are out of your control and make you feel bad for them.
14
Openly and respectfully discussing issues and confronting disagreements non-judgmentally. ______ conflict is a normal and expected part of any relationship.
15
You can be truthful and candid without fearing how the other person will respond.
16
When someone expresses very extreme feelings and over-the-top behavior that feels overwhelming.
17
You value one another’s beliefs and opinions, and love one another for who you are as a person. You feel comfortable setting boundaries and are confident that the other person will respect those boundaries.
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responsibility is owning your actions and words. You avoid placing blame and are able to admit when you make a mistake.
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Confidence that your partner won’t do anything to hurt you or ruin the relationship.
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You enjoy spending time together and you bring out the best in each other. A healthy relationship should feel easy and make you happy.
