Asking about suicide correctlyOnline version Please read this carefully before starting. This is how a conversation about suicide would ideally go with someone you are concerned about. Use the "Start Step by Step" mode for optimal learning. If you see a speaker with an "X" to the right of the text, this is the part you should read aloud. After reading your part, click on the next box to hear the response. Work your way down the entire conversation, reading your part out load. Not everyone will say they are thinking of suicide, but you would be surprised how many will. It is a myth that asking someone if they are thinking about suicide will make them do it. You cannot make someone who is not suicidal become suicidal by asking if they are. If someone is already suicidal, asking does not make it worse. You are the concerned person in this dialogue. Click on your part and read it aloud. After reading, click on Alex to hear the response. Speaking your part will make you more comfortable than reading. Like anything, the more you practice, the better you will be interacting with someone in crisis in real life. https://freerangethinker.org by Dr. Chris Caulkins Concerned Person (Read this out loud) Hi Alex, are you okay? You're always so punctual. We were a bit worried about you. Alex Don't worry about me. It isn't worth the effort. Concerned Person (Read this out loud) What do you mean by that? Alex Don't worry. It won't matter soon. Concerned Person (Read this out loud) Sometimes, when people say things like you are saying and behavior changes, like being late when you weren't before, they are thinking of suicide. Are you thinking of killing yourself? Alex Actually, I am. Concerned Person (Read this out loud) Do you know how you would kill yourself and when? Alex I'd probably use my uncle's gun. I haven't decided when, but soon. Concerned Person (Read this out loud) Alex, this is serious and I'm a bit scared. I think we should call your therapist or get you to a doctor. We could also call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. Which would you prefer? Alex Let's try the phone call first. Concerned Person (Read this out loud) OK, we should probably make sure your uncle locks that gun up, too. The number here in the U.S. is 9-8-8. I'll put it on speaker now. Lifeline Counselor National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. How may I help you?