Fill in the Blanks Setting Boundaries (D)Online version Fill in the gaps. by Boglárka Kozári 1 guard act autonomy valued resentment matter committed trustworthy violated toxic intimacy anxiety Respecting someone else ? s boundaries is an of love . When we can respect and listen to someone ? s boundary , even if we don ? t agree with it or understand it , we are saying ? you to me . ' It also lets the other person know you ? re and safe . That you understand they have their own and that you don ? t know better than them what ? s good for them . Respecting boundaries helps build trust and because you ? ve created a " safe space " for the people around you . In this safe space , everyone feels respected and , and it will allow you both to lower your and lessen and tension . This will allow you to build a healthier relationship , whether it ? s a working relationship , friendship , or romantic relationship . And it will support their mental health and yours because there won ? t be dynamics between you too . Pushing at someone else ? s boundaries creates stress , discomfort , and potentially in the relationship . It can lead to arguments or even the end of the relationship if the boundaries are repeatedly . It can be challenging , but as long as you and your partner sincerely respect and care about each other and are to making it work , you almost always can find a way 2 appreciation setting willing point interest access demand define reinforce deserve equivalent emulating cost reminiscent worth clarifying unacceptable caught page comprehensible You teach people how to treat you by clear boundaries , defining your expectations , expressing emotions empathetically , and exiting situations you find . Teaching people how you want to be treated starts with yourself . You may need to first what works and doesn ? t work for you . Then , you can be transparent with others . The way you believe about and treat yourself sets the standard for others on how you to be treated . People learn how to treat you based on what you accept from them . In order for people in a relationship to be on the same , they need to have to the same " instruction manual " or " rules of engagement . " You might want to have an of a business meeting to discuss the " rules " of your relationship . You may want to find a time when everyone is in good spirits and to elaborate on this topic . You teach people how to treat you when you can identify a need and then express it in a clear and way . Treat others the way you want them to treat you , which is of the Golden Rule and different from treating people how they treat you . You also need to the behaviour that you like . Reinforcement simply means expressing when the other person makes the effort to change their behaviour . Find a role model of someone who demands respect and appears to have a strong sense of . The important component of a role model is that they are the desired beliefs and behaviours that you would like to adopt or integrate . Sometimes , people may be too up in being rigid and defending their own reality to try to act differently . When you start what you will and won ? t tolerate , there ? s also a chance some people won ? t stick around . At that , you need to ask yourself what ? s in your best ? a relationship at the of you , or making room for the future relationships that you ?
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