1. Start by having an introduction to your story so your conversation partner will have an idea of what you are going to talk about.
4. Smoothly transition your story from event to event. As we hear the events occurred step by step, we can easily follow, link the details and visualize events chronologically.
2. The listeners will be able to imagine the scene of the story and feel as if they’re there. You can include details about who is involved, where it took place, and what you were doing at that time.
8. Instead of saying: “I did a self-guided tour of Paris last week.” Say: “So I am walking downtown Paris with a smile on my face. I can’t understand anything the people are saying, but I am living the dream…”
5. To hint your listeners that something surprising or important is about to happen, use words like "Suddenly" or "Unexpectedly". This will make your listener tune in and listen to you a bit more closely.
6. Make your stories exciting by sharing the emotions that you experienced. Interesting stories include what triggered action and how you felt. If your listeners felt the same way, then you have established a connection. Use words like "shocking”, "speechless”, "devastating".
3. Include details that are important to be mentioned in the story and omit the ones that aren’t needed. Overly detailed stories are hard to follow thus can create a rambling feel.
7. Make your story come alive by including as many senses as possible. It will guide your listener to connect and picture what you are describing. Use words that tell about sound, taste, texture, smell, and look.
Provide a background to set the scene
Relive the story; show it dramatically
Use beginning phrases to start a story
Choose relevant content
Use sensory words
Describe emotions
Use interruption words to create suspense
Use sequencing words
