Matching Pairs 7 HabitsOnline version Match the 7 habits vocab from habit 5 by Edward Asante 1 Listening to the words of the person speaking but not to the body language, feelings, or the true meaning behind the words. 2 Paying attention to only part of the conversation that interests us. 3 Ignoring a person by making insightful comments at key junctures such as "yeah" and "uh huh." 4 Ignoring the person talking because our mind is drifting to another galaxy. 5 Repeating exactly what the other person says. 6 Giving advice to some based on one's own experiment. 7 Repeating back in one's own words what the other person is saying and feeling. 8 Listening to the person speaking based on our own point of view. 9 Making judgments in the back or one's mind while the other person is speaking. 10 Listening not only to one's words but also to the speaker's body language, tone, feelings, and the true meaning behind the words. 11 Attempting to dig up someone's emotions before they are ready to share them. Probing Self- Centered Listening Judging Spacing Out Mirroing Genuine Listening Advising Word Listening Pretend Listening Selective Hearing Mimicking