Matching Pairs 7 HabitsOnline version Match the 7 habits vocab from habit 5 by Edward Asante 1 Listening not only to one's words but also to the speaker's body language, tone, feelings, and the true meaning behind the words. 2 Giving advice to some based on one's own experiment. 3 Repeating back in one's own words what the other person is saying and feeling. 4 Listening to the person speaking based on our own point of view. 5 Attempting to dig up someone's emotions before they are ready to share them. 6 Ignoring the person talking because our mind is drifting to another galaxy. 7 Making judgments in the back or one's mind while the other person is speaking. 8 Listening to the words of the person speaking but not to the body language, feelings, or the true meaning behind the words. 9 Ignoring a person by making insightful comments at key junctures such as "yeah" and "uh huh." 10 Repeating exactly what the other person says. 11 Paying attention to only part of the conversation that interests us. Spacing Out Self- Centered Listening Pretend Listening Probing Selective Hearing Genuine Listening Mimicking Word Listening Judging Advising Mirroing