Matching Pairs 7 HabitsOnline version Match the 7 habits vocab from habit 5 by Edward Asante 1 Attempting to dig up someone's emotions before they are ready to share them. 2 Repeating back in one's own words what the other person is saying and feeling. 3 Listening not only to one's words but also to the speaker's body language, tone, feelings, and the true meaning behind the words. 4 Repeating exactly what the other person says. 5 Listening to the words of the person speaking but not to the body language, feelings, or the true meaning behind the words. 6 Making judgments in the back or one's mind while the other person is speaking. 7 Paying attention to only part of the conversation that interests us. 8 Ignoring the person talking because our mind is drifting to another galaxy. 9 Giving advice to some based on one's own experiment. 10 Ignoring a person by making insightful comments at key junctures such as "yeah" and "uh huh." 11 Listening to the person speaking based on our own point of view. Advising Mirroing Genuine Listening Selective Hearing Mimicking Word Listening Spacing Out Self- Centered Listening Judging Probing Pretend Listening