Matching Pairs 7 HabitsOnline version Match the 7 habits vocab from habit 5 by Edward Asante 1 Repeating back in one's own words what the other person is saying and feeling. 2 Ignoring the person talking because our mind is drifting to another galaxy. 3 Paying attention to only part of the conversation that interests us. 4 Repeating exactly what the other person says. 5 Attempting to dig up someone's emotions before they are ready to share them. 6 Making judgments in the back or one's mind while the other person is speaking. 7 Listening to the words of the person speaking but not to the body language, feelings, or the true meaning behind the words. 8 Listening not only to one's words but also to the speaker's body language, tone, feelings, and the true meaning behind the words. 9 Ignoring a person by making insightful comments at key junctures such as "yeah" and "uh huh." 10 Listening to the person speaking based on our own point of view. 11 Giving advice to some based on one's own experiment. Genuine Listening Word Listening Pretend Listening Mirroing Mimicking Self- Centered Listening Advising Probing Spacing Out Selective Hearing Judging