Matching Pairs 7 HabitsOnline version Match the 7 habits vocab from habit 5 by Edward Asante 1 Ignoring the person talking because our mind is drifting to another galaxy. 2 Paying attention to only part of the conversation that interests us. 3 Ignoring a person by making insightful comments at key junctures such as "yeah" and "uh huh." 4 Attempting to dig up someone's emotions before they are ready to share them. 5 Listening not only to one's words but also to the speaker's body language, tone, feelings, and the true meaning behind the words. 6 Repeating back in one's own words what the other person is saying and feeling. 7 Repeating exactly what the other person says. 8 Making judgments in the back or one's mind while the other person is speaking. 9 Listening to the words of the person speaking but not to the body language, feelings, or the true meaning behind the words. 10 Listening to the person speaking based on our own point of view. 11 Giving advice to some based on one's own experiment. Self- Centered Listening Selective Hearing Judging Word Listening Mimicking Advising Spacing Out Probing Pretend Listening Genuine Listening Mirroing