Matching Pairs “Because I love you” video awareness campaignOnline version Match each sign on the left with the behaviour on the right. Column 1-Your boyfriend or girlfriend… Coumn 2- When he /she… by Helena Santana 1 d) forces you to take responsibility for their feelings 2 g) has a bad temper 3 e) gives you ultimatums 4 i) constantly checks up on you 5 c) uses guilt as a tool 6 f) threatens you with physical violence 7 a) shows controlling behaviour 8 h) forces you to do things you don’t want to do 9 b) humiliates you 10 j) is always picking a fight 7. makes you feel weak and small. 9. makes you feel bad for letting him/her 3. wants to make you feel that everything is your fault. 4. tries to test your limits and see what you might be willing to apologise for. 1. can’t get his/her way with words and resorts to violence 1. can’t get his/her way with words and resorts to violence 8. gives you a final warning to get what he/she wants 10. makes you do things you would rather not do. 6. becomes really angry over something that isn’t important to anyone else. 2. demands that you text or send pictures to him/her while you are out.